Have you ever told yourself lies about your marriage?
I know I have!
🐍One lie, I've been guilty of thinking about is this: "they have it easy". Yup. Guilty as charged!
🐍This lie is rooted in comparison. It says if I had or did x,y,z I'd be happy too! After all, who would want a private jet? I could fly anytime I want and would never have to deal with airport security again.😂😂😂
🐍When I think with this lie, I begin to fill in the gaps with fairy tail facts. I imagine that there is happiness and joy because of x, y, z. But is that true? How did I make my assumption? What if there isn't happiness at all?
🙌When I ask myself these questions, it snaps me back into reality. The reality that I don't have all the facts. The reality that I don't need to know; its none of my business. The reality that we cannot believe everything we see on social media.
🙌What if we choose gratitude for our blessings instead of looking at what we do not have?