Happy Valentine's Day! Who holds the key to your heart? This is an important question as many will face today trying to plan the perfect, romantic surprise for their loved one. For some, their romance is new and exciting, but for many, there are a few obstacles in the way. Whichever category you fit into, there's one thing I'd like you to consider. I loved this quote by Dallas Willard, "“The first act of love is always the giving of attention”. It's true for the first act and for our every day lives. Giving people attention is a way to show them, love. So here's a Valentine's Day tip: Resist Phubbing your spouse, date or kids today. What's phubbing? Its when we snub someone to pay attention to our phone's. Yup! I've been guilty of Phubbing. Have you? Well if the first act of love is the giving of attention, then phubbing someone is not loving. When we phub, we are saying that whatever is happening in cyberspace is more important than what is happening right in front of you! WOWZA! Your challenge for Valentine's day, date or no date, is to resist the urge to Phub others. That will be the best gift you can give. The key to your heart and your loved ones is to give them attention. How were you challenged by this thought today?