It's Okay To Have Needs
Feb 01, 2022
To my fellow, "ladies" out there, can I share something with you?It's okay for you to have needs! Yes, you heard that correctly!Our society has programmed us as women to busy ourselves caring for everyone else's needs but our own.No wonder I talk with women every day who feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and downright resentful!The pattern I see these amazing, hard-working women playing over and over again, is that everyone must get their needs met before I can even think about my own.The problem with this is most women when asked directly, "What do you need right now?" cannot answer that question.It's not because they aren't smart or capable. No! Not at all!It's because they have never made space in their brains to ask themselves what they really want and need.I see women who expect their families to guess what they need, even though they cannot describe In words what it is that they need.It's time to change this!It's time to make the space to hear yourself think and understand what you really need (which Is different and unique to every woman).If you are curious about how to make space In the middle of the chaos called life, please type curious In the comments and I'll DM you.
You no longer need to live with the leftovers your whole life!